Irina Khakamada: Introduce Sexuality
I am sure that the sexual attractiveness of a woman does not depend on the age or size of the breast. You can always be interesting for men, and you should not rely on the achievements of plastic surgery here. The most important thing, as always, comes from the inside!
When I want to bring sexuality to myself, I usually watch a movie. I choose a beautiful melodrama with a wildly attractive protagonist. In my opinion, Nicole Kidman is brilliantly sexy, her charm is secretive and seemingly invisible. French women differ in this - Sophie Marceau, Isabelle Adjani. Please note that sexuality and sex appeal are completely different things. If you want to be sexy, then put on lace stockings, a leather skirt, throw your breasts out, paint your lips - and absolutely everyone wants you, and you show that you can do it right here and now. Sexuality is completely different. This is an opportunity to attract a female secret that you so want to solve. And in this way you attract decent men.
So, you turn on the movie and watch the actress dress uphow she behaves with men. Trying to recognize what its extravagance, its aristocracy and attractiveness are. No need to copy the actress - it's useless. But try to embody her image in yourself, feel just like her!
The second thing you need to do is get rid of the image of the perfect lady forever. If you want to attract men, you can’t have absolutely the right make-up, a smooth hairstyle and perfectly selected clothes, which also goes with a handbag. When you have everything right, you become an excellent student, cold as ice. It's boring! And sexuality is just a small incorrectness, some charming flaw. Even Leo Tolstoy wrote about this in War and Peace: any imperfection is very attractive.
If a hairdresser puts your hair in, it's not sexy. Most often, they do everything very beautifully, but so correctly that it repels. In any case, men do not pay attention to such styling. And if some strand falls out of the hairstyle, a completely different matter. I especially like it when a few naughty strands remain at the top of the head.
Or wear strict trousers, and from under them you can see a piece of fishnet stocking. A little piece! Not warm socks and not knee-length socks, but fishnet, black, elegant stockings! In vain you think that a man will not notice this. Notice how!
But the most important thing is sexuality in the eyes. For example, you’re talking with a man and want to be attractive to him, and he discusses Medvedev’s policy and compares it with Yeltsin’s policy (I don’t know how it is with you, but with me men often talk about politics). At this moment, you need to imagine that you are smelling cornflowers and daisies in the field, the sun is shining, the birds are chirping and you are very well. The face immediately relaxes. He tells you about Medvedev, and he thinks: “Well, how good it is!” Because your eyes are smart. It can be seen that you understand what he is talking about.
And here's what: learn to relax your face, because all our troubles and misfortunes accumulate in the lower part of the facial muscles. As a result, the muscles overexert and the face becomes stiff. Children do not have this tension, so they have faces like angels.
You ask how to stay sexyif you are half tortured to work and life? I will answer this: it is possible only if even at home every second you will love yourself and like yourself. If you don’t sit in a bathrobe at the weekend, but dress in something simple, comfortable and charming, intimate at home. So you gradually bring up the tradition of liking yourself, and when you need to go out in people, you will not lose this feeling. Never share: at home I am lahudra, and in public a beauty. With this attitude, nothing will work out for you, especially with age. Do not try to please others for a short time. It’s much more important to like yourself, and always! So that at any moment you can look in the mirror and say: “My God, well, beautiful!” And smile subtly, charmingly, with a hint of secrecy.